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What Not to Say to Someone with Anxiety

Hello there… As some one who suffers from anxiety I feel it’s important to share my experiences, not just for other sufferers but also for my friends/family who are unsure of how to deal with me with I’m feeling anxious or in the middle of an attack. As a family member of someone who suffers… Read More What Not to Say to Someone with Anxiety

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20th March

I’m struggling today. Every year it gets harder – people say time heals it, but that’s not true. You don’t feel anything less, well I don’t, i struggle every day. I miss him every single day. I wish my life wasn’t like this and I wish it could go back to how it was, before… Read More 20th March

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Judgemental Begone

Hello my lovelies, a little introspection today… I generally pride myself on how non-judgemental I am, and for the most part that’s true. Live your life how you see fit, it generally doesn’t bother me what anyone else likes to do, who am I to judge when my life is such a big fuck-up? But… Read More Judgemental Begone

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Holidays & Anxiety

Hello My Lovely Readers… You may have read my last post about myself and Mr T’s holiday to Agadir, Morocco, where we stayed in a beautiful Riu Palace Hotel, if not, check out Our First Holiday, to see some pretty pictures of Agadir, and mainly the stunning hotel. This post is about how my anxieties… Read More Holidays & Anxiety

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Songs That Help with Depression

Hello my lovely readers… People react differently to depression, and are affected by different things personally, music really affects me, and some lyrics just stick with me and make me feel slightly less alone. When I’m in a depressive state, I tend to cut myself off and stay in my head where thoughts aren’t constructive… Read More Songs That Help with Depression

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Do I Still Hate My Wedding Day?

Hello Lovey Readers Last June I wrote a post about how I hated my Wedding Day, I actually learned a lot from that post. I realised how sensitive I actually am and how much I can bend to people’s expectations/wants and chose that over what I want to do, just to keep the peace or… Read More Do I Still Hate My Wedding Day?

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The Story Never Told

There’s a story in my life that is never told. It can never be told in full. But what I can say is that it’s like this dark cloud that follows me around. When I look back at my life it has been uneventful, nothing out of the ordinary has really happened, but everything has… Read More The Story Never Told

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The Social Anxiety of a Loud Mouth

There is no end to it, it will own you forever, social anxiety is going to kill us all! At least that’s how I feel writing this at 6 am. Okay I may have exaggerated the killing us all bit, but generally I feel like there will be no end to the torment. But let’s… Read More The Social Anxiety of a Loud Mouth

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Am I Oversensitive and Needy? Spoiler: Yes.

A little bit of a moan today guys and dolls… So I guess I’m feeling all emotional today, I’m far more sensitive than I have been for a while and I think it has to do with a few a things. One being hormones, but isn’t that just a female excuse? Yes, because it’s the… Read More Am I Oversensitive and Needy? Spoiler: Yes.

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What I Learned Being Married for 3 Years

Hi guys and dolls! This post is a little deep, a lot of rambling crap and just a little attention seeking (sorry about the swear words…) So I’m now 28 and have realised that come 17th August I’ve been married for 3 years. 3 fucking years! Where has that time gone? Before Mr T and… Read More What I Learned Being Married for 3 Years